The Preparedness Library
Some things belong on paper.
Printed kits, checklists, and workbooks for the moments that matter — designed to be filled in, marked up, and handed to someone else when it counts. Every kit is a preparation tool, not a legal document, and each one pairs with a free guided intake here.
Before
Prepare while you still have every option open.
The Prenup Conversation Kit
The hardest conversation, made structured.
Most couples avoid the prenup conversation because they have no idea how to start it without it sounding like distrust. This kit gives you the structure — what to disclose, what to decide, and the order that keeps it collaborative instead of adversarial.
The Care Wishes Kit
Say what you want while you still can.
If you could not speak for yourself tomorrow, someone would have to decide for you — about resuscitation, life support, and what a good outcome even means to you. This kit helps you decide, write it down, and tell the people who would be asked.
The Job Transition Field Guide
The deadlines nobody tells you about.
Leaving a job starts several clocks at once, and the expensive one is the 60-day rollover window. Pocket-sized, deadline-first, and written to be read in an afternoon.
The Money Conversation Deck
52 questions most couples never ask.
A deck of 52 cards, sequenced from light to genuinely difficult. Debt histories, spending styles, what "ours" means, what you would do with a windfall — and what happens if one of you stops working.
Ongoing
Keep it accurate as life keeps moving.
The Postnuptial Kit
For the agreement you did not make beforehand.
A business was started. An inheritance arrived. One of you left work to raise children. Postnuptial agreements exist for the things that change after the vows — this kit helps you identify what actually needs addressing.
The Life Documents Binder
Everything that matters, in one place.
When something happens, the problem is almost never that documents do not exist — it is that nobody can find them. This is the physical home for all of it, organized so someone else could pick it up and know exactly what to do.
The Annual Life Audit
2026 Edition
One afternoon a year. Everything current.
Estate plans go stale silently. Beneficiaries stay wrong for a decade. This dated workbook walks your household through a full review once a year, so nothing quietly drifts out of date.
After
Handle what comes next, in the right order.
The Name Change & Social Security Kit
Social Security first. Then everything else, in order.
Almost everyone starts a name change in the wrong place. Social Security has to be updated first — the DMV, passport agency, and your bank all verify against SSA records, so doing them first means doing them twice. This kit puts the whole sequence on paper.
When Someone Dies
The first 90 days, in order.
Being named executor means handling several dozen tasks with real deadlines while you are grieving. This kit takes the sequencing off your shoulders — what has to happen this week, this month, and before the year is out.
The Post-Divorce Reset
The decree is signed. Now the real list starts.
A divorce decree does not retitle your house, split your 401(k), remove your ex from your life insurance, or separate your credit. Every one of those is a separate action with its own paperwork — and the ones people miss are the expensive ones.
Titles, Deeds & Joint Property
Whose name is on it now — and who decides?
Joint ownership is where estates and separations get genuinely confusing. How a deed is worded decides whether a house passes automatically, goes through probate, or gets split — and most people have never read the words on their own title.
The Complete Preparedness Library
Every kit in the collection — before, during, and after each of life's major transitions. The complete physical library for a household that intends to be ready.
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These are educational preparation kits — checklists, worksheets, and conversation guides. They are not legal documents and do not create one. Pre&Post is not a law firm.